Saturday, May 14, 2005

Dan is right. Did I just say that?!?!?!

Hello hello!
Sorry I've been incommunicado. Jay graduated last weekend and this week I've been terribly busy with exams (one to go) and such. It's only midterms for me, but I'm still looking forward to their being OVER.
The talk shouldn't be dreaded if you're on the same page, which is pretty easy to gauge if she keeps saying yes. I'm with Dan, though, in that it's not really necessary. If you keep doing stuff together and keep enjoying each other's company--why wreck things with talking? I'm all for the keeping on keeping on approach. Talking is for when things start to go badly. Then, it's over-rated and people should just move on. If someone says, "We have to talk." Just say goodbye, it's easier on everyone.
Then again, I haven't dated in 8 years, so I might not be the best person to ask. Then again, I'm not sure how much I ever dated. But, I did do a lot of talking and from experience can say that it's BAD!

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